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Couples Do Not Get Stuck in Problems. They Get Stuck in Patterns.
Most couples do not come to therapy because they have “a problem.” They come because they have become trapped inside a pattern. And often, they have been living inside that pattern for years. Sometimes decades. One partner pursues while the other withdraws. One...
Sometimes individual therapy makes relationships worse.
Sometimes individual therapy makes relationships worse. After years of sitting with couples, I think that’s true more often than therapists are comfortable admitting. Not always, obviously. Some people genuinely need therapy to survive a relationship or leave one....